"Mu vang'e zola ka ba Katanga mbèle yo yo luekanga ko kansi ntumbu yo tungânga !" (To reconcile, one does not bring a cutting knife but a sewing needle)
In a remote and isolated village, there lived a childless couple named Makiadi and Nsona. They loved each other so much that they did not want to follow the village's relocation to a new place closer to a fish-filled river. Days went by, and they continued to demonstrate their sincere and unwavering love for each other. The villagers, observing their steadfastness, commented, "What an exemplary couple!" However, behind these praises, there were also criticisms of the spouses. Women took the opportunity to denounce their husbands' bad behavior, and men did the same. This became a daily occurrence. If it had been in these times, this couple would have been praised!
One day, Nsona fell ill. Despite the lack of resources and the absence of children to provide financial support, Makiadi spared no effort to care for his beloved wife. The illness worsened, and Makiadi found himself at his wit's end. He sought help from his fellow villagers, but no one paid him any attention. Unfortunately, Nsona succumbed to her illness. Makiadi was overcome with deep sadness and implored Nzambi (God) for help, saying, "Oh Nzambi, I beg you, bring my wife back to life. We are only two. How will I live without her?"
The villagers suggested that Makiadi organize a funeral befitting a woman who had been a role model, even though she had been unable to have children. A funeral program was quickly established, but Nsona refused. He categorically opposed the burial of his beloved wife, much to the surprise of those who had offered their help, because he had prayed to Nzambi, his Creator. Every day, he repeated the same prayer to Nzambi while singing, "Oh Nzambi, I beg you, bring my wife back to life. We are only two. How will I live without her?"